Re: health care

The kids need structure at home as well as at school. The parents need to start early with this while the children are grade school age so as to provide positive (not actually brainwashing) direction on how the kids should go about making decisions and what they should occupy their time with. This is real work (or maybe enjoyment) on the part of the parents. Parents can be self envolved and ignore the needs of their children. It is too easy to let them sit in front of a tv or video game etc. My son is 21 and will do okay, but I am now aware after all these years of where I fucked up.